The first couple of weeks of Boo's life were a blur. I guess that's not so unusual, and I'm actually not quite sure when I really felt on top of things again. But those first two weeks his bassinet and crib remained empty as he stayed in the Neo-natal Intensive Care Unit. It was scary, and exhausting, and chaotic. But we had a big team of nurses and doctors looking after both of us. I was never alone with him, and never actually fully responsible for him.
Finally bringing him home on day 15 was a shocker. I felt like a little kid. I wanted someone to tell me what to do, like the nurses had been doing. I wanted someone's approval. But there was no one to give it. Not even my own mom. who was far away in Newfoundland. It finally and fully hit me that day, when we placed him in his own crib for the first time. This was reality. I was a Mom. I was responsible for this little life - completely and fully responsible. Talk about terrifying.
|It actually took me two days to get it together enough to even take a picture of him. He's 17 days old here. |
And refusing to nap.
Eventually I accepted his pediatrician's word that he was actually just fine and perfectly healthy. And once I calmed down a bit, I started to think about the future. How the heck much was his education going to cost in 18 years? What would happen if something horrible happened to me or his dad? Or both of us?! Who would look after him? How much money would he need?
It was scary, to be honest. But he was depending on us. So we put a series of things into place, including his RESP and a savings account, and life insurance. Boo actually has his own life insurance policy. His is a whole life policy that he can cash out to help pay for his education if he wants when the time comes. Or he can take it over at maturity without a medical exam. His dad and I assessed our existing policies and beefed them up. We don't want to leave him (or my step-son) hurting financially in a tragedy.
What about you? Do you know what would happen to your loved ones if something terrible happened to you? I get it. It's a morbid and scary thought, but we need to understand our responsibilities and take precautions.
|Momma's boy. The reason behind most of my decisions.|
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